A slice of cake...

Attention ALL girls. 

So, me and one of my friends were talking about relationships. ohhhlalalalaa. And last year I read a book called redefining beautiful.It has so much great advice on boys. Hahaha. And it talked about how you should never force a relationship just to have a boyfriend. I feel like so many girls in high school just want to be loved and feel accepted that they will take any guy that wants them. But it's like God the ultimate King already loves and accepts you. God is never late and girl all you have to do is wait. The hardest part is the waiting. We all want our prince n.o.w. But it's quite a bit early for the majority of us. Another thing is like every girl wants herself a man. At age 15 I'm pretty sure not one of these boys is a man. And why are we trying to force them to be?! They aren't ready yet. And why are we making is so easy on them?! They need to build up muscle and courage so that when they do find a girl, they are the ones who pursue her. No princess has to work for her prince. When we make it too easy by making ourselves too available, how are we helping boys to become men?! We're not!If anything we're causing them to stumble! As girls we need to help them become men! If we make it too easy on them, they aren't ever going to grow up. So ladies let's do our part! And sweetheart if you expect to find a prince, then you better be acting like a princess. Classy=Classy. Trashy=Trashy. Classy boys want classy girls. Trashy boys want trashy girls. Don't expect to get something that you aren't. 
And as girls, we get very emotionally attached. So it probably isn't smart to date a toooonnnn of guys. And think about it, every time you date a new guy, that means another piece of your heart taken away from your true love (husband) Here is a great analogy that helps explain it perfectly:)
Your heart is like a piece of cake. Every time you date someone, they are taking a bite out of your cake. Then when it comes time to give your heart (cake) to your husband, then the whole piece of cake isn't there anymore...Who wants a piece of cake with bites taken out of it? not me! No one does! The more you try to protect your heart the better it's going to be in the long run, and you will have wayyyyy less baggage. 
And girls let's stop settling for guys that aren't our princes. I mean like why waste time? Set standards and stick to them. There still are princes out there! The age of shivery is not yet dead. Don't give up hope! Let God place him in your life, because God is the only one who knows which prince is perfect for you<3


True love waits. 


" I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God."
1st Timothy 2:9-10


"Dance with God and he will let the perfect man step in."


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